• Domina Dali

My Second Year as a Dominatrix

Last year I wrote about my first year as a Dominatrix and all the amazing things I got to experience and accomplish. I officially decided to become a dominatrix in August of 2018 after many years of contemplating it and learning all about BDSM and many interesting skills.


The biggest change is that I've gone independent! This means so much more freedom when it comes to sessions. I can also play in other spaces and events now which is huge for me as a performance artist and occasional event organizer. This opens up so many more interesting and creative ways to play. I've also built deeper connections with my clients because I'm interacting with them directly rather than having a middle man. My rates are also drastically lower than they used to be as I don't have to pay any premium rates in order to have a session! I've also opened a brand new dungeon rental space to play in, in the heart of downtown Toronto!


Due to COVID, performances have ended until events are a possibility again. I was supposed to perform on one of the main stages in Toronto PRIDE this year. Sadly, that's one of the many things to grieve this year. On another level, I am thankful for the resulting break as it was getting to the point I was performing, demoing, or speaking on BDSM every weekend. One of my last performances was at Northbound Leather and Impulse's HUGE 1000+ person fetish party doing a theatrical rope bondage suspension! What a way to go out! I'm deeply thankful for every opportunity I've ever had to do anything of the sort and be recognized and validated publicly, but as an introvert, I really needed rest and a nice foot rub. You can read my up to date performance history here.


I'm also in the process of publishing a printed zine in collaboration with Northbound Leather called CUIR. Which you can read more about here.


Life is slower now, I'm thankful for the time I have been given to realign with my values and take care of my body; My ass has never looked better!. These days I'm painting erotic art, playing in the brand new dungeon, and having ecstatically joyful femdom duo sessions with one of my prodomme wife-y's Bastienne!

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